Alhamdulillah udah memasuki semester 2 kuliah. Bisa dibilang sukses walaupun dengan IP semester yang secara nominal udah lumayan tapi sebenarnya gak ada apa-apanya di kelas, ihik ihik. Sejak bulan Mei/Juni kemarin saya menjadi satu-satunya perempuan di kelas yang dihuni 32 pria lantaran seorang teman sejawat terpaksa mengambil cuti karena kehamilannya terganggu. Mudah-mudahan saya gak ikut mengalami yah teman-teman, sedih banget rasanya :( Sekarang sih bayinya udah lahir dan tumbuh sehat, tapi saya yakin kejadian mendadak seperti ini mengganggu rencana-rencana hidupnya. Semoga Allah memberi yang terbaik..
Btw, sekarang udah resmi hamil 19 minggu. Alhamdulillah...kehamilan yang bikin saya banyak bersyukur kepada Allah karena satu persatu doa-doa dan impian kami dikabulkan. Kami emang pengen banget hamilnya ketika saya sedang kuliah begini, soalnya waktu luang saya pastinya jadi lebih banyak di rumah. Sementara di kantor udah dipatok jam kerja 7.30-17.00, banyak tantangan dalam menyesuaikan diri dengan kebutuhan anak yang masih nyusu dan perlu didampingi. See, only God has perfect timing. Jadi meskipun penghasilan terpaksa berkurang (uhuk), rezeki nonmaterial seperti ini rasanya mewah sekali. Semoga besok saya makin kuat menjalaniii.
Trimester kedua ini ngomong-ngomong lancar banget, beda jauh dengan trimester pertama yang rasanya dikit-dikit muntah. Kebanyakan minum air lah, nyium bau ikan lah, telat makan, perut kosong, kebayang hal menjijikkan dikit juga langsung muntah. Syukurnya lama kelamaan muntah ini manageable, bisa dicegah sehingga gak menyusahkan. Repotnya cuma puasa Ramadhan bolongnya banyak, wong perut ga mau nunggu sampe maghrib buat diisi :( Bisa jadi karena saya punya maag, dan cenderung makin gampang kumat saat itu.
Sementara sekarang, woowwww makan jadi makin kenceng. Berat badan yang sempet turun 2 kilo udah kembali, ditambah bonus 2 kilo malah. Walaupun dari segi visual badan saya masih belom mekar-mekar banget, teman-teman kuliah juga pada bingung karena kok perut saya gak keliatan maju. Ga papa lah, adek bayi sehat dan lincah kok. Naik terlalu cepat dan banyak toh juga ga syehaatt. Bagusnya lagi, karena kuliah, banyak kegiatan tambahan yang bisa saya kerjakan selain pekerjaan rumah. Lumayan banget selain ngikutin gerakan-gerakan yoga di youtube. Dan seluruh aktivitas ini, naik turun tangga juga buat ke kelas, lebih menyehatkan dong ketimbang kerjaan saya di kantor dulu yang sedentary banget.
Jadiiiii anak mamah udah bisa apa di perut? :)) Nendang-nendang dan guling-gulingnya udah jago banget mamah! Powernya mungkin gak heboh, tapi frekuensinya luar biasaa. Bayangin kalo lagi tiduran hadap kanan dia nendang di kanan, pas pindah ke kiri ehh dia uda nendang di kiri lagi. Dan saya pikir nendang berkali-kali di tempat yg berdekatan dalam waktu singkat itu ketika bayi udah di trimester tiga, ehhh ini si bocah udah bisa ternyata. Jadilah saya selaku newbie preggo cuma bisa ketawa geli ketika dia lagi bergerak-gerak. Sayangnya giliran ayah ngelus-ngelus perut si bocah langsung berhenti, kasian kan ayah manyun hihihi.
Btw, did your husband build a new habit during your pregnancy? Bapak saya iya. Waktu hamil saya beliau pelihara monyet, waktu hamil adik pertama ayam, hamil adik kedua ular kalo ga salah, dan hamil adik ketiga pelihara burung. Aneh ga siihhh? -___-
Begitu anaknya lahir hobi ini ya hilang aja gitu. Saya kira ini emang bapak aja yang rada-rada, tapi ternyata suami mendadak keranjingan banget melihara ikan. Memang sih di kontrakan kami ada kolam ikan yang menempel di dinding, tapi tidak begitu dia peduliin sampe saya mulai hamil. Sekarang mah tiap jalan maunya beli ikan buat di rumah, dan kalo ngasi makan ikan gak kenal waktu. Siapa yang ga jadi sebel kalo udah hampir kesiangan ke kantor dan belom mandi, suami dengan gaya bak putri keraton, berlama-lama menebar makanan ikan? Aduuhhh, tar aku yang kasih makan deh! Tapi ya suami engga bisa ninggalin kalau menurutnya belom kelar -__-
Soo, sekian repetan yang merapel beberapa bulan dimana saya males menulis di blog. Pingiinnya sih rajin, tapi rasanya amat salah kalo punya waktu ngeblog sementara PR dan materi kuliah belom dibaca *pencitraan* In the end, harapan saya selain minta adek bayi sehat selalu juga supaya saya dan suami bisa lulus kuliah sesuai rencana. Semoga alam semesta membantu berkonspirasi mencapai tujuan ini, amiiinnnn ^^
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Jumat, 18 Oktober 2013
Jumat, 15 Maret 2013
Monthly Update #4
Not much happened to me lately... Maybe only one or two..
1. Alhamdulillah udah dapat rumah kontrakan.
Gak bisa dibilang deket dari kampus sih. Pertimbangan kami kan cuma 1 ya: dengan biaya semininimal mungkin dapat kepuasan maksimum; pingin rumah murah yang deket, bagus, cantik, bisa dijangkau dengan jalan kaki, udah sama pembantu dan supir, di daerah elit, tingkat 2, ada kolam renang dan ruang karaoke pribadi, ahhhhhhh!!! Sayang, saya bukan Mayang Sari. Rumah-rumah yang kami temukan di sekitaran Kalimongso-PJMI kebanyakan punya kamar lebih dari 3 sehingga bujetnya di luar yang kami anggarkan. Gak perlu kamar banyak-banyak sih wong cuma tinggal berdua, dan di sisi lain beberapa rumah berkamar 2 yang berlokasi dekat lingkungannya kurang nyaman. Pengap lah, di dalam gang, ketutupan sinar matahari, dan lain-lain yang intinya gak bikin tergoda menghuni. Sederhana aja, rumah haruslah yang bikin penghuninya betah kan, kasian juga suami kalo udah jauh-jauh commuting dari Jakarta Pusat ke Bintaro dan tidur di kamar yang pengap. Pencarian kami di minggu berikutnya membuahkan hasil; 700 meter dari kampus udah ada rumah yang cukup nyaman dan bersahabat di kantong. I consider this as God's gift, amalan apa yang udah kita perbuat sampai dimudahkan begini ya Yang? Seneng banget deh pokoknya :)
2. Tuh kan bingung mau nulis apa! Emang ga banyak yang bisa dikabarin! :P
1. Alhamdulillah udah dapat rumah kontrakan.
Gak bisa dibilang deket dari kampus sih. Pertimbangan kami kan cuma 1 ya: dengan biaya semininimal mungkin dapat kepuasan maksimum; pingin rumah murah yang deket, bagus, cantik, bisa dijangkau dengan jalan kaki, udah sama pembantu dan supir, di daerah elit, tingkat 2, ada kolam renang dan ruang karaoke pribadi, ahhhhhhh!!! Sayang, saya bukan Mayang Sari. Rumah-rumah yang kami temukan di sekitaran Kalimongso-PJMI kebanyakan punya kamar lebih dari 3 sehingga bujetnya di luar yang kami anggarkan. Gak perlu kamar banyak-banyak sih wong cuma tinggal berdua, dan di sisi lain beberapa rumah berkamar 2 yang berlokasi dekat lingkungannya kurang nyaman. Pengap lah, di dalam gang, ketutupan sinar matahari, dan lain-lain yang intinya gak bikin tergoda menghuni. Sederhana aja, rumah haruslah yang bikin penghuninya betah kan, kasian juga suami kalo udah jauh-jauh commuting dari Jakarta Pusat ke Bintaro dan tidur di kamar yang pengap. Pencarian kami di minggu berikutnya membuahkan hasil; 700 meter dari kampus udah ada rumah yang cukup nyaman dan bersahabat di kantong. I consider this as God's gift, amalan apa yang udah kita perbuat sampai dimudahkan begini ya Yang? Seneng banget deh pokoknya :)
2. Tuh kan bingung mau nulis apa! Emang ga banyak yang bisa dikabarin! :P
Senin, 18 Februari 2013
#Monthly Update 3
Judul seenaknya diganti karena ternyata saya engga bisa nulis dalam periode mingguan. Hahah.
What's new in this month? Well, the best of all, I got a free ticket to upgrade my education in STAN Bintaro, no need to go to work for two years and still get paid :))
Cannot be more thankful than now. Especially when I notice that all of a sudden all my wishes come true as soon as I got married. Kebetulan kali yaahhh...tapi kan rezeki gak ada yang namanya kebetulan... Waktu lagi kepengen steak, eh tau-tau menang voucher makan steak, sekarang kepengen kuliah lagi, eh dikasih juga. Oh iya, sempet kepengen medical checkup sama suami yang gak kesampaian mulai dari sebelum merid, dan baru-baru ini malah menang voucher Prodia. Terimakasih buat @Soyjoy_ID!! Alhamdulillah.
Kuliah baru dimulai Mei 2013 nanti, dan senangnya kerasa banget karena sebelomnya saya sebel pas tau pengumumannya diundur. Harusnya diumumin akhir Januari 2013, lalu muncul berita susulan bahwa pengumuman ditunda sampai akhir Maret 2013. Entah kenapa pas saya lagi buka-buka twitter yang sekarang diblok sama kantor tanggal 14 Januari lalu, muncul update pengumuman kelulusan. Happy happy happy! Akhirnya kita bisa pindah ke kontrakan ya ibu-ibuukkk, setelah 3 bulan lamanya nyewa kosan doang demi jaga-jaga kalo keterima sekolah lagi. Satu lagi yang bikin saya bersyukur berat, kegiatan daftar ulang juga baru dimulai akhir April 2013, artinya rencana kami untuk berlibur ke Malaysia pertengahan April juga masih bisa terlaksana. Yiihhaaaa!
Another news, bos lama saya yang baik hati, cerdas, dan supersibuk akhirnya promosi. A fully deserved one yak, tapi saya agak sedih kok orang seperti dia malah pergi dari kantor ini, huhuhu. Untung penggantinya juga orang yang baik dan tidak terlalu merepotkan proses adaptasi saya. Hahaha, nulis apa sih kok normatif banget gini?? Intinya sih saya bersyukur karena selama berkarir sebagai sekretaris pimpinan saya engga pernah dapat bos yang galak dan bikin males ngantor...jadi opsi sekolah lagi sebagai pelarian atas kehidupan kantor yang tidak menyenangkan sama sekali bukan alasan saya.. Sayangnya berhubung sekretaris yang satu dibawa bos lama pergi, otomatis saya belum punya orang buat menggantikan kerjaan dong. Mudahan cepet ada orangnya, biar saya bisa pergi dengan hati tenang!
What's new in this month? Well, the best of all, I got a free ticket to upgrade my education in STAN Bintaro, no need to go to work for two years and still get paid :))
Cannot be more thankful than now. Especially when I notice that all of a sudden all my wishes come true as soon as I got married. Kebetulan kali yaahhh...tapi kan rezeki gak ada yang namanya kebetulan... Waktu lagi kepengen steak, eh tau-tau menang voucher makan steak, sekarang kepengen kuliah lagi, eh dikasih juga. Oh iya, sempet kepengen medical checkup sama suami yang gak kesampaian mulai dari sebelum merid, dan baru-baru ini malah menang voucher Prodia. Terimakasih buat @Soyjoy_ID!! Alhamdulillah.
Kuliah baru dimulai Mei 2013 nanti, dan senangnya kerasa banget karena sebelomnya saya sebel pas tau pengumumannya diundur. Harusnya diumumin akhir Januari 2013, lalu muncul berita susulan bahwa pengumuman ditunda sampai akhir Maret 2013. Entah kenapa pas saya lagi buka-buka twitter yang sekarang diblok sama kantor tanggal 14 Januari lalu, muncul update pengumuman kelulusan. Happy happy happy! Akhirnya kita bisa pindah ke kontrakan ya ibu-ibuukkk, setelah 3 bulan lamanya nyewa kosan doang demi jaga-jaga kalo keterima sekolah lagi. Satu lagi yang bikin saya bersyukur berat, kegiatan daftar ulang juga baru dimulai akhir April 2013, artinya rencana kami untuk berlibur ke Malaysia pertengahan April juga masih bisa terlaksana. Yiihhaaaa!
Another news, bos lama saya yang baik hati, cerdas, dan supersibuk akhirnya promosi. A fully deserved one yak, tapi saya agak sedih kok orang seperti dia malah pergi dari kantor ini, huhuhu. Untung penggantinya juga orang yang baik dan tidak terlalu merepotkan proses adaptasi saya. Hahaha, nulis apa sih kok normatif banget gini?? Intinya sih saya bersyukur karena selama berkarir sebagai sekretaris pimpinan saya engga pernah dapat bos yang galak dan bikin males ngantor...jadi opsi sekolah lagi sebagai pelarian atas kehidupan kantor yang tidak menyenangkan sama sekali bukan alasan saya.. Sayangnya berhubung sekretaris yang satu dibawa bos lama pergi, otomatis saya belum punya orang buat menggantikan kerjaan dong. Mudahan cepet ada orangnya, biar saya bisa pergi dengan hati tenang!
Jumat, 21 Desember 2012
weekly update #2 #3 #4 #5
shouldn't it be monthly update instead of weekly update? *scoffs*
1. On 22-24 December tomorrow, we're gonna visit our parents in Magelang, go go let's go.
2. Oh, did I tell you I enrolled STAN again? The test was done 2 weeks ago, must say I wasn't very good at preparation but it went well thankfully.. This is something that both of us bet our life on (providing you read the previous weekly update), so all we have to do now is crossing fingers.
3. I was so excited to know Life of Pi came to town. So I dragged my hubby to the nearest theater and he nodded provided that I'll accompany him to watch 5cm.
4. Life of Pi is cool!! Too bad I watched it in 2D because it was weekend and 3D will cost us a lot (hey we're still in black period). The book is also great by the way, unlike another book-turned-movie, 5 cm, which sucks. In both versions.
5. Okay, this will be a super long story.
So we are on birth control plan, although we're not sure of how long it will be. The rule is when the baby comes, we're all financially and emotionally ready. Probably we are right now, however we still enjoy being only two of us and due to some other stuffs, like colleges and work, this will wait. People can say children have their own luck, but it's still their parents' duty to fulfill their needs, no?
Bla bla blah prologue ends. Two days before enrollment test, I threw up my snack. And my snack is Keripik Karuhun so it left a not-so-good feeling in my throat. I vomitted next to a tree in our way to Hotel Orchardz where my husband was to attend a meeting there. He thought I was having a bout of 'masuk angin' as usual. I insisted it was not, because I never threw up of it in my life. He bought me a hot tea and Tolak Angin and as soon as I entered our room-to-stay... I threw it all up again...
The third time was after dinner. You can tell I was getting weaker, my hubby was getting worried and we took a day off the next day to go to see a doctor. The doctor didn't dare to give me medicine because she was afraid it was a pregnant symptom!! So then we waited, day another day. I bought a few pregnancy test packs and kept my urine almost every morning...
6. That, turned out to be no, I'm not pregnant. The results are all negative but I still didn't menstruate until a week later.
7. And it left us confused. Suddenly I realize I want a baby too.....
1. On 22-24 December tomorrow, we're gonna visit our parents in Magelang, go go let's go.
2. Oh, did I tell you I enrolled STAN again? The test was done 2 weeks ago, must say I wasn't very good at preparation but it went well thankfully.. This is something that both of us bet our life on (providing you read the previous weekly update), so all we have to do now is crossing fingers.
3. I was so excited to know Life of Pi came to town. So I dragged my hubby to the nearest theater and he nodded provided that I'll accompany him to watch 5cm.
4. Life of Pi is cool!! Too bad I watched it in 2D because it was weekend and 3D will cost us a lot (hey we're still in black period). The book is also great by the way, unlike another book-turned-movie, 5 cm, which sucks. In both versions.
5. Okay, this will be a super long story.
So we are on birth control plan, although we're not sure of how long it will be. The rule is when the baby comes, we're all financially and emotionally ready. Probably we are right now, however we still enjoy being only two of us and due to some other stuffs, like colleges and work, this will wait. People can say children have their own luck, but it's still their parents' duty to fulfill their needs, no?
Bla bla blah prologue ends. Two days before enrollment test, I threw up my snack. And my snack is Keripik Karuhun so it left a not-so-good feeling in my throat. I vomitted next to a tree in our way to Hotel Orchardz where my husband was to attend a meeting there. He thought I was having a bout of 'masuk angin' as usual. I insisted it was not, because I never threw up of it in my life. He bought me a hot tea and Tolak Angin and as soon as I entered our room-to-stay... I threw it all up again...
The third time was after dinner. You can tell I was getting weaker, my hubby was getting worried and we took a day off the next day to go to see a doctor. The doctor didn't dare to give me medicine because she was afraid it was a pregnant symptom!! So then we waited, day another day. I bought a few pregnancy test packs and kept my urine almost every morning...
6. That, turned out to be no, I'm not pregnant. The results are all negative but I still didn't menstruate until a week later.
7. And it left us confused. Suddenly I realize I want a baby too.....
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Rabu, 21 November 2012
weekly update #1
1. We're finally moving. We did search for a house-for-rent but turned out they mostly had to be paid on yearly basis. We wanted a monthly rent because I aimed to go on study duty (what do they call 'tugas belajar'?) by January 2013, so, a yearly rent was impossible. After sitting back together and chatting over tea, we decided that we'll live in a bigger kos-kosan and the house will be yet to decide on January.
2. I was granted the position of Chief Financial Officer (well, he simply declared the walking ATM) from His Majesty Royal Husband. I like to be taken charge of at least one job, and financial planning is something I am most curious about these days. I think I succeed in convincing him, due to the fact that I handled our last wedding planning quite good. Or he doesn't want the hassle... Many things to work on, and I am trying my best to get all of our needs financially ready.
3. Our honeymoon is all about moving to one place and another. Hahaha, I wanted to say this was fun, but I was sick all the time. I think it's only a mere fatigue, fever and throatiness and such, but it took days to recover :( Luckily my husband is very gentle and willing to take care of me. On to the important note, at first we wanted to have this honeymoon planned seriously (or maybe just me).. We thought of Lombok, Bali, a cruise, and decided on Penang...in April next year! So that's it, we have nowhere to go after wedding, hihihi, but as a gift to ourselves we stayed in a four-star hotel after leaving Samarinda, instead of going hiking to Gunung Bromo because I was still sick.
4. After a long long time...we entered the cinema! To watch Breaking Dawn Part II! Haha, the movie is not great, but during the entire Twilight Saga, we only missed the first movie of not watching it together so yes it's personal reason :P
5. I love my husband even more... even more when he stepped forward to do the bathroom cleaning, the ironing, and serving me hot tea when I couldn't. That's a rare quality I'm glad to find (except cooking, my father wouldn't want to do household chores..he only deals with electricity, machines, and all man-things)
that's it... i would be happy to provide some pictures on the next posting.. my camera's been acting strange lately..
2. I was granted the position of Chief Financial Officer (well, he simply declared the walking ATM) from His Majesty Royal Husband. I like to be taken charge of at least one job, and financial planning is something I am most curious about these days. I think I succeed in convincing him, due to the fact that I handled our last wedding planning quite good. Or he doesn't want the hassle... Many things to work on, and I am trying my best to get all of our needs financially ready.
3. Our honeymoon is all about moving to one place and another. Hahaha, I wanted to say this was fun, but I was sick all the time. I think it's only a mere fatigue, fever and throatiness and such, but it took days to recover :( Luckily my husband is very gentle and willing to take care of me. On to the important note, at first we wanted to have this honeymoon planned seriously (or maybe just me).. We thought of Lombok, Bali, a cruise, and decided on Penang...in April next year! So that's it, we have nowhere to go after wedding, hihihi, but as a gift to ourselves we stayed in a four-star hotel after leaving Samarinda, instead of going hiking to Gunung Bromo because I was still sick.
4. After a long long time...we entered the cinema! To watch Breaking Dawn Part II! Haha, the movie is not great, but during the entire Twilight Saga, we only missed the first movie of not watching it together so yes it's personal reason :P
5. I love my husband even more... even more when he stepped forward to do the bathroom cleaning, the ironing, and serving me hot tea when I couldn't. That's a rare quality I'm glad to find (except cooking, my father wouldn't want to do household chores..he only deals with electricity, machines, and all man-things)
that's it... i would be happy to provide some pictures on the next posting.. my camera's been acting strange lately..
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